Monday, July 11, 2011

The Internet is like alcohol in some sense. It accentuates what you would do anyway. If you want to be a loner, you can be more alone. If you want to connect, it makes it easier to connect.

Many of you may have heard of Google+.  Some of you may even be using Google+.  I was fortunate enough to be invited to use it a couple of weeks ago, now.  So I've had some time to figure it out... Mostly.
 

I find myself still learning things, like when you're getting used to any social networking site.  (I was so entwined with Myspace, that when I had to finally pull the plug and start using Facebook, I was like a fish out of water.)  However, the nice thing about Google+ is it is a lot like Facebook, only better.

There is a stream, not unlike Facebook's "News Feed".  You can post pictures and videos.   There is a video chat function, called "Hangouts", which allows you to chat one on one with a Google+ user, or with multiple users in the same chat room.

Another major change with Google+ is the differentiating a positive response to a person's post and being interested in something.  Both are called called "like" or "liking" on Facebook.  You can "like" a person's post, or go to a specific profile for a thing, actor, movie, group, or whatever, and "like" it to get news and posts from that thing.  It was a little confusing when they changed adding a profile of whatever thing you were into as a friend into "liking" it.  They should have called it something different to avoid any mixups.

On Google+, these are two very obviously different things.  For instance, if someone on your stream (news feed in FB talk) posts something you liked, you "+1" it.  I don't know why they called it that, but I guess it means you agree.
Now, if you like something, and you want to get posts, news, or info on it, you search for it on "Sparks" and add it to your interests.  This gives you quick access to any info posted on Google+ on the subject.  I haven't tried it, because I can't think of anything in particular to add just yet.  However, I did just do a search for "Harry Potter" in the sparks section, and it came up with some pretty interesting posts/videos/news stories/etc.  So, I think this looks much more organized than doing a search on Facebook for things you may like.  Especially because what comes up isn't just profiles and fan pages.

Another thing Google+ did better was creating "circles".  Instead of having just one list of "Friends", you can add whomever you want to any given circle, or multiple circles.  You can name the circles whatever you please to make them easily identifiable.  For instance, you could make these circles:  "acquaintances", "family" "work friends", "teachers", "college friends", "people i wanna do", "creepers", "friends who like the same nerdy things as me", "people I don't know but who've added me to their circles", etc.  The circles can get as creative as you want them to be, that was just a list of random circles I could think of.
Now, here's where it gets really cool.  Every single thing you post, be it a picture, a video, a link, or just a text post, only shows up to whichever circles you want it to.  For instance, if you want to post a picture of you and your baby niece, you can post it to just your "family" circle.  Or, if you want to post something funny your work friends will only understand, you can send it just to them.   Say you want to post a picture of you getting a lap dance that you don't remember from the night before, but you don't want your family or work friends to see, you can send it to whomever you feel it's acceptable to send it to. The important detail is, you only send it to the circles you want to see it.  This is good not only for you, but for the people in your circles as well.  You're going to save yourself embarrassment perhaps, but you are also going to save the people in your circles the boredom of having to go through posts they don't care about.  Well, in theory, anyways.

I know Facebook tried the whole "lists" thing, but to be honest, by the time this became an option, I had already censored myself quite a bit to mostly accommodate all of my friends, family, AND coworkers on Facebook.  Creating a bunch of lists just seemed like too much work at that point.

Another cool thing about the circles is, you can choose which circles you want to read the streams from. You can read them all, or read the streams of each circle individually.  Which also saves yourself some boredom if you don't feel like reading the "comic book nerd friends" stream today.  Or ever.

If you have an Android phone, there could not be a better social networking app.  It is incredibly seamless.  It's quick, it's neat, you can delete posts from your phone unlike Facebook.  Whenever you take a photo on your phone, it automatically uploads to your Google+ account in a private folder.  After it uploads, you have the option of posting the photos publicly and who you would like to see them.  No more having to upload each photo individually.

Another difference is how Google+ combines all of your gmail contact information into your account.   I like that you can access all of your contacts on Google+.  Well, you will be able to once it opens to the general public (if they choose to sign up).  I like having my information all in one spot.  It makes life a lot easier.  I also have a google phone, so that integrates things a lot more as well.  The less work I have to do to juggle e-mails, friends, contacts, voicemails, etc, the better.

One thing that Myspace was always a step ahead of Facebook in was the tiny amount of anonymity.  You were able to have complete strangers on your friends list.  You can do that on Facebook, but it always seemed a little weird to me to do that because I have so many family members and coworkers on my friends list.  I didn't want to open up my profile to some randoms who might post really strange things on my page and have my parents or bosses wondering about it and how it relates to me.  I got some really odd posts on Myspace, but on Myspace, you had privacy settings that let you approve comments, so you could avoid some of those really weird or awkward ones going straight to your page.
Also, on Facebook, I feel like a lot more personal information is available than was on Myspace, which is also something I didn't always feel comfortable sharing with complete strangers.  On Facebook, a friend can check you in at whatever location you may be at with them.  Which is fine, but, on Myspace, I had thousands of followers.  I really did not need all of them knowing where I was exactly at any given moment.  Google+ gives you the best of both worlds.  No one can see which circle you've put them in, so they won't be offended if they may not see everything you post.  You can post your location, but you can choose who sees that information.  It's all very good for privacy, and this way, you can add people to your circle that you don't know, but may find something in common with.  I like it.

You also can't post on someone's wall, but you can tag them in a post directed towards them.  I think.  I haven't actually done this yet.  But I've seen other people do it.

There's probably a lot of features I haven't touched upon, but those are the biggest ones I've encountered thus far.

I can't wait until Google+ opens to the general public.  I really like it.  I feel like the only thing it's missing is a blog section.  Then, once everyone joined, I would never need to post anything anywhere else.  But don't tell my network host site I said that.

Oh, and if anyone knows how to merge two gmail accounts (I made the mistake of using one for this site, and one for the my google+) let me know.  I'm tired of having to switch accounts when I go between my blog and google+.  Or, if there's a way to change your blogger main email address to another email address, that would work, too.

Anyways, here's a Facebook funny:

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Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Murder is unique in that it abolishes the party it injures, so that society has to take the place of the victim and on his behalf demand atonement or grant forgiveness; it is the one crime in which society has a direct interest.

Ah yes, the Casey Anthony trial.  I didn't follow the trial closely whatsoever, so I won't try to say I know without a doubt what the verdict should have been.  (Although, from what I do know, I'd have to say "guilty".)  Casey Anthony was rumored to be offered $750,000+ for a book deal.  I'm sure there are offers for movies.  I've also heard from an insider that she was offered ONE MILLION DOLLARS to do a porn movie.  Really, America?  This is the image we want to portray to the impressionable?  This is what we want other countries to see?  If you kill your child (or are at least accused of it), you could become a famous multimillionaire?  I keep trying to fool myself into thinking this cannot be real life.  But it is.  We are a soulless, money grubbing country.  We suck.

In other news.  I just got back from a mini tour with Black Church Service.  We went to Nebraska and back.  Omaha was a bit of a letdown, except the zoo was more than amazing, especially for the price!  I loved it.  Lincoln was a lot of fun.  Sioux Falls was great, as usual.  I don't think I could live that lifestyle for more than a few days.  I wasn't getting completely drunk every night, so it's not really the drinking I'm talking about.  It's the countless hours riding around in a van and eating terrible gas station food the whole time.  Yuck.  I'd feel like hell if that were my life all of the time.  But, for a short period of time, it was quite the good time.

Here's a cool shot I took at the zoo:
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Monday, June 20, 2011

Don't accept your dog's admiration as conclusive evidence that you are wonderful.

Winston bit me in the face today.  I was trying to trim his nails and he was not having it.  This was after giving him xanax.  It's really bizarre, I used to be able to trim his nails pretty easily, but now he just will not let me.  He also doesn't let me brush his teeth.  I'm taking him to the groomers from now on, that shit is not worth getting bit in the face over.

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Food is the most primitive form of comfort.

I'm a bad blogger.  I had the whole day to myself and didn't save any time to write a blog.  So I'm writing one now instead of sleeping.  But that's okay, I don't have anything to do early tomorrow, anyways.

I made a fantastic meal today.  I made a pine nut and currant meatball dish with swiss chard and baguette slices:
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I own a lot of recipe books, but this one piqued my interest for a few reasons.  Real Simple magazine is a GREAT magazine, it is incredibly useful for a million different reasons, so obviously, they're going to make a good cookbook.  Another reason I chose this book is because many of these dishes had really interesting ingredient choices, some of the ingredients they put together would never have occurred to me otherwise.  The dishes are also incredibly varied.  If I want scallops one day, braised chicken the next, and turkey waldorf another, it's all here.  Lastly, and most importantly, all of these dishes are intended to be quick, easy, and mostly nutritional.  So far, they have been.

Here's a link to the book to purchase if you're interested:  Recipe Book .   You may be able to find these recipes on the Real Simple recipe website as well, I'm not sure.

Tyler is a major foodie and he has really loved all of the dishes I have made from the book so far.  It makes me feel pretty good, because he does most of the cooking, and it's nice for me to get to make something delicious every once in a while as well.  I wish I had the natural ability to cook like him, but I don't.  Luckily for me (and him, I suppose) I am really good at following directions.  So, as long as it's a good recipe, it's going to be a good meal.  This is probably one of the reasons I tend to do more baking than him.  Baking is a lot less winging it and a lot more measuring and following timelines.

I had it all set in my head that next time I wrote a blog it would be about communication differences based on your upbringing, but somehow this just ended up being about food.  Whoops.  Maybe next time!

By the way, this Saturday is Tyler's birthday and we will be heading to Chicago to see Beady Eye (Liam Gallagher's new band).  We're only going for one night, but it should be a lot of fun!

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole.

I FINALLY got internet, thanks to my new neighbors, so posting will no longer be painful.  Huzzah!

Remember when I said I was excited to have my new bike?  Well, did I ever mention I haven't truly ridden a bike for any sort of real distance in probably 15 years?  Yesterday, during a record breaking hot day, which was also incredibly windy, Tyler got me to ride for about 15 miles.  My butt hurts incredibly bad from the seat and I have a ridiculous sunburn on the tops of my shoulders and my nose.  I can wear a t-shirt, but makeup only goes so far in covering up things you want hidden on your face.  I feel a little ridiculous, but at least it's just temporary.  I still like my bike.  I just won't be riding it for a couple of days.

I brought Panda to the most fun adoption event yet on Sunday.  There was so many adorable puppies.  There were even two I secretly considered adopting myself.  One was a female who looked and acted like Winston but she was about 5 times bigger, which, is still pretty small.  Her breed was something of  a mystery to them, but I am pretty sure she was a Brussels Griffon or Affenpinscher mixed with a Chinese Crested.  The other was a black female Brussels Griffon, and she was just very docile, gentle, and sweet.  I guess I also toyed with the idea of this grey miniature poodle with no teeth.  She was very sweet and incredibly soft, and so cute and tiny, but to be honest, it was mostly because she looked really bizarre without any teeth and I loved her for it.  I'm a glutton for strange dogs, I guess.

Fostering has been going well, by the way.  We're still working on some potty training issues, but Panda has gotten MUCH better.  She almost always pees outside, but her pooping inside has unfortunately not changed a whole lot yet.  She's become much more social, but she can still be very shy and still spooks pretty easily, but I give her another month and I think she'll be doing much better.  She got a lot of compliments from the other fosters (a few of them have even fostered her for short periods of time), they all said she looked great physically, because she used to be a bit overweight, and that she seemed so much more friendly and social.  She's always been a sweet dog, but she mostly just tended to herself when I first started fostering her.  Now, she is starting to enjoy the company of people and trust them a bit more.  I'd say she's probably at the halfway point, but moving really quickly towards healthy responses towards people.  I'm really proud of her, I can't imagine what her life was like in the puppy mill.  It really makes me feel good that she is making such strides and that people are noticing.

Anyhow, time for food and bed.

Sunday, June 5, 2011

To get back my youth I would do anything in the world, except take exercise, get up early, or be respectable.

I just wanted to do a quick update to make up for my absence over the past few weeks.  Ever since I quite smoking (in January) I've been feeling the urge to start something of an exercise regiment.  However, I'm reluctant to get a gym membership, because if I have to travel to a destination to do it, I probably never will get around to it (I am lazy when it comes to driving anywhere).  It has also been a terrifyingly long winter, so exercising outside as a beginning was not of any interest to me, either.  But now, it is finally nice outside, so I made a few purchases.

I bought a hula hoop.  This is fun, but not really much of a workout, so I think I need to take it apart and put some sand inside.  I also bought a jump rope.  This is a pretty intense workout.  I have to alternate between jumping for a few minutes, and then hula hooping for a few, otherwise I get way too winded.  At least for now, until I increase my stamina.  These two items together were only around $10-11, so it was a pretty good deal.  I figure in the winter, I can use these in the laundry room when it's too cold to use them outside.

My favorite exercise purchase, though, is my new bike.  I got a hybrid Schwinn and it is so cute.  I'm working on getting the seat adjusted perfectly so it becomes a bit more comfortable.  I love it, I've taken it on a few rides, but nothing more than 30 minutes yet.  I can't wait until Tyler and I have time to bike together all day.

It's amazing how just a little bit of workout can help, though.  I only just made these purchases about a week ago, and I've exercised probably 3 of the days, but I can already tell a difference in tone.  Not much, but enough to encourage me to continue.

Anyways, I am currently in the throes of online house shopping and hanging with the pups, so I am going to get back to that.

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Certainly, travel is more than the seeing of sights; it is a change that goes on, deep and permanent, in the ideas of living.

My sincerest apologies for the lack of blogs.  I have been consistently on the go for a couple of weeks, and thus, have forgotten to try and make time for my blog.  The important thing is, I'm here now, and I have plenty to talk about.

For this blog, I'll finally talk about my trip to New Orleans.  As I mentioned in my previous post, I took a pretty ridiculous amount of photos.  I'd take a photo and post it immediately to Facebook almost like a photo journal.  Had I had the option to make the journal on here somehow, I would have.  But, at this point, it would take me days to compile all of the photos, transfer them to photobucket and then repost about everything I was doing, so I'll stick with some highlights.

First of all, we ate food like we were never going to eat again.  We spared no expense and spared no amount of calories.  It is easy to do this in NOLA:

Soul food at Mother's:
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The highlight of the trip for me, crab legs:
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Tyler wanted a bib too, even though he was only eating shrimp:
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Beignets and coffee at Cafe du Monde.  I should mention I NEVER drink coffee, but I drank it twice in New Orleans because it was just that good:
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Crawfish at the Bayou Boogaloo (a local music festival):
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Excellent brunch:
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I have tons more food pictures, but you get the idea.  We ate well.  It's pretty rare that I get to eat seafood for every meal, so getting it eat it 95% of the time for our entire trip was quite the treat.

We saw and heard some really great musicians:

Street musicians:
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Cedric Burnside:
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Had plenty of drinks:
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Did some tourist shopping:

Sweet feather hairpieces:
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Mardi Gras wear:
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Avoiding the plague:
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We got some tattoos:
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Hung out in a firehouse:
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Did some sightseeing:
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We also went on a swamp tour:
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So, as you can see, we had a pretty eventful and wonderful time:
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I would highly recommend a visit to anyone who is considering it.  I can;t wait to go back and do some of the things we didn't have time for.